Thinking about these issues, especially the deeper hurts, how do you feel they have changed you, or do you feel that they have at all? Have you avoided situations that could lead to simular hurt? Are there areas where you would like to grow in certain relationships but you are afraid to because you can't deal with the possible pain that could result? Are there things that you would like to accomplish that you can't because of fears resulting from these issues?
Are there areas in the church that you are hesitant about because of an issue you have had?
Prayer: Pray for strength as you process these challenging thoughts.